Wedding Ceremonies That Feel Like You
Your Love Story Deserves More Than a Script
Forget generic vows and one-size-fits-all ceremonies. Your wedding should feel like the best party you've ever thrown, mixed with the most meaningful conversation you've ever had. It should make your guests laugh, maybe cry a little, and definitely think "wow, that was so them." That's what I create: ceremonies that capture your personality, your journey, and all the little moments that make your relationship yours. Want to dance up the aisle? Read song lyrics instead of poetry? Get your dog involved? Have your kids join in a sand ceremony? Act out your favorite romantic movie scene? Let's do it. This is your day, and it should celebrate you exactly as you are.
The Small Joys Approach to Weddings
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We Start With Your Story
Every couple has a unique journey—the silly in-jokes, the shared adventures, the annoying habits you've learned to love. I want to hear all of it. The more I know about you, the more your ceremony will feel authentically yours.
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We Design Together
I'll guide you through the process, offering ideas and suggestions, but this is your ceremony. Whether you want something structured and elegant or loose and spontaneous, we'll create it together.
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We Celebrate Your Way
Traditional? Alternative? Somewhere in between? I'm here for all of it. From castle ceremonies to woodland clearings, from classic vows to completely original declarations—your wedding, your rules.
What's Included in Your Wedding Package
£450 includes:
✓ Free initial Zoom consultation to see if we're a good fit
✓ Up to 5 interviews (video, phone, or in-person) to gather your story
✓ Detailed questionnaire to capture all the details
✓ Completely personalized ceremony script
✓ Unlimited script revisions—we'll get it perfect
✓ Help writing your vows (if you want it)
✓ Wedding rehearsal attendance
✓ Coordination with your other suppliers on the day
✓ My complete attention and presence on your ceremony day
Additional Options (prices available on request):
- Symbolic elements (handfasting, sand ceremonies, unity rituals)
- Extended ceremony time
- Additional planning meetings
- Travel beyond my usual coverage area
Ceremony Styles I Love
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Outdoor & Nature-Inspired
Woodland ceremonies, park bandstands, garden celebrations, Brecon Beacons backdrops—there's something magical about saying your vows surrounded by nature.
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Festival Vibes
Glastonbury-inspired? Green Man style? Let's bring those festival feelings to your wedding with laid-back, music-filled celebrations.
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Vintage & Retro
Love all things vintage? We can weave that aesthetic and those nostalgic touches throughout your ceremony.
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Alternative & Quirky
Harry Potter? Victorian gothic? Totally DIY? If you can dream it, we can create it.
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Inclusive Celebrations
LGBTQ+ ceremonies, blended families, neurodiverse-friendly formats—everyone deserves a wedding that honors who they are.
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Budget-Conscious Creativity
Amazing ceremonies don't have to break the bank. I'm happy to work creatively with your budget and explore sustainable, DIY options.
The Small Joys Approach to Weddings
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Step 1: Free Consultation
We'll have a relaxed chat (Zoom, phone, or whatever works for you) to talk about your vision and see if we click.
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Step 2: You Book Me
Once you're sure I'm your celebrant, we'll sort out the paperwork and schedule our first proper planning session.
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Step 3: Story Gathering
This is the fun bit. Through interviews and questionnaires, I'll learn everything about you—how you met, what makes you laugh, your shared adventures, and what you want your ceremony to say.
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Step 4: Script Creation
I'll craft your ceremony script, weaving in your story, your personalities, and any special elements you want to include.
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Step 5: Review & Refine
You'll get to read the script and we'll make any changes you need. Unlimited revisions—we're not stopping until it's perfect.
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Step 6: Rehearsal (If You Want One)
I'll attend your rehearsal to make sure everyone knows what's happening and you feel confident and excited.
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Step 7: Your Wedding Day
I'll arrive early, coordinate with your other suppliers, and deliver a ceremony that's everything you hoped for.
Unique Elements We Can Include
- Handfasting ceremonies for that Celtic connection
- Sand ceremonies perfect for blended families
- Unity rituals that reflect your values
- Live music woven throughout
- Readings performed by guests (or by you!)
- Song lyrics as meaningful as any poem
- Interactive moments that involve your guests
- Pet participation (yes, really!)
- Surprise elements for your partner or guests
- Cultural traditions that honor your heritage
- Personal vows that speak from the heart
Where I'll Celebrate With You
I'm based in Pontypool and cover:
- South Wales: Brecon Beacons, Cardiff, Newport, Monmouthshire
- Bristol & the South West
- The borders: Herefordshire, Shropshire, Gloucestershire
- Special connections: Glastonbury and Green Man festival areas
I love outdoor venues—park bandstands, woodland clearings, people's gardens, anywhere with meaning to you. I'm also at home in barns, castles, and quirky venues with character.
If your dream spot is a bit further afield, let's talk. I'm always up for an adventure.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Yes, in England and Wales, celebrants can't legally marry you (yet!). Most of my couples do a quick register office signing a few days before or after, then have their "real" ceremony with me. The legal bit takes 10 minutes—our ceremony is where the magic happens.
Let's Create Your Perfect Day
Ready to plan a wedding ceremony that actually feels like you? Get in touch for a free, no-pressure chat about your plans.
